Curious about attending a sex party? Many men who have access to these hot party sessions want to make the most of it. Certain good penis care, including proper hygiene and the use of a top-notch penis health crème, are a few ways to ensure a handsome penis that is ready for display among strangers. But there are plenty of other things to consider before getting all dressed up and heading for the good times.

Every sex party has its own rules, but there are some rules of etiquette that tend to be universal. Read over those rules and know them by heart, but don’t be surprised if there are even more rules that must be followed in order to enjoy sexual bliss. Be ready to roll with the changes.

Basic sex party etiquette

So without further ado, here’s what a man needs to remember when he takes himself and that handsome penis out for a little action.

1. Dress appropriately. Unless the invite says a man should go with a particular theme, such as a ‘sports night’ complete with a favorite team’s jersey, a man should step up the clothing game. Despite what a man might hope, sex parties don’t involve wall-to-wall nudity; there is quite a bit of discussion happening between those who are fully clothed. Opt for at least business casual, but if it’s an upscale place, consider black tie.

2. Bring a friend. Though parties often say it’s okay to bring a plus one, some actually require use of the buddy system. If the buddy system isn’t required, it’s always a good idea to bring another man along, at least as a wingman. This gives a guy someone to talk to during those first few awkward moments, and provides plenty of opportunity for after-action discussion about how things went.

3. Let the ladies take the lead. Though a man might be accustomed to being the alpha in any relationship - even those that last for only one night - he must put that aside during the sex party. The ladies are the ones in control there, and they will make it abundantly clear if a man oversteps his boundaries. So be polite and let her call the shots, unless she very clearly says it’s time for the guys to do the shot-calling.

4. Don’t expect to get lucky. Many men go to sex parties with the expectation of whipping out a handsome penis and getting action all night long. In that case, a man will be sorely disappointed. Some sex parties do have open areas where they allow an ‘anything goes’ mentality, but for the most part, these events are a bit classier than that. Some men might go to a sex party and watch plenty of action, but not get any themselves. In fact, for the first few visits, that’s entirely okay.

5. Don’t drink too much. Events like sex parties can make even the most adventurous man a little shy, and that makes it quite likely to reach for the alcohol one too many times. Avoid doing this, as it could lead to a permanent ban. And besides that, a man who drinks too much and then gets lucky might find that he doesn’t get lucky at all, as that handsome penis suddenly decides not to get into the game.

6. Heed rules and protection. At most parties, condoms are an absolute must, but some go beyond that by requiring a thorough wash-down beforehand, or even requiring the use of dental dams and other barrier protections. Don’t try to get around this, as it compromises the health of everyone involved; besides, it’s very bad form.

Above all, have fun at a sex party, and stay safe while doing it. To prepare for the fun, opt for regular use of a penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). Look for a crème that contains skin-enhancing nutrients, such as vitamin E for hydration, vitamin A for odor-fighting properties and vitamin C for better skin tone. The addition of Shea butter can also lead to a healthier, more handsome penis.