Have Better Sex by Working the Orgasm
May 23, 2016Even when a man has mind-blowing intercourse, he’s always interested in how to have better sex. After all, an orgasm is one of the most pleasurable experiences a man can encounter. But sometimes, a guy needs to take some time and make an effort to find that heightened experience - and working that orgasm is one way to go about it. Assuming a male is practicing appropriate penis care, he should be in good shape to try extending or enhancing his release through a number of basic techniques.
What is meant by working the orgasm? Basically, it means focusing on factors that can directly affect the ejaculatory experience for a man. There are many, many issues that indirectly impact the orgasm, such as one’s feelings about sex or the relationship with the person with whom one is intimate; or one’s mindset when engaging in sexual activity. But for this article, the focus is on much more physical, tangible factors.
With that in mind, these are a few things for a guy to try:
- Go solo. Guys like to masturbate. Period. The rate at which men masturbate varies from one individual to another, but most men enjoy masturbation on what they would consider a regular basis. And that’s a good thing. Masturbation is an excellent way to explore one’s penis and find out exactly what feels good. And what feels great. And what feels unbelievable. So men need to pay some attention to what exactly they do to themselves in bed (or in front of the computer) so that they can transfer that knowledge to shared experiences with a partner. A guy can try different strokes, timings, intensities, etc. out on himself and then share that knowledge with his partner for a more intense climax.
- Keep the air flowing. Proper breath control is important in many areas, such as athletics and exercise. Well, sex is an athletic exercise par excellence. While it’s hard to keep one’s mind on breathing while in the middle of a sexual romp, guys should try to be aware of their breathing when they get to the release. Many people who have been panting heavily up to that point suddenly stop and hold their breath when they feel the big moment coming. But many men report that their experience is even more intense when they DON’T do that - when they "breathe through" the orgasm instead.
- Toy with it. Although the use of sex toys has become much more accepted in recent years, many men still feel hesitant to explore this option. This largely comes from a feeling that a guy should be "man enough" on his own and shouldn’t need "artificial" assistance. But sex toys can add a new layer to one’s experience, especially if in a long-term relationship which may have become a tad too "comfortable." Penis rings can be an excellent and easy way to add something new to the game and can provide an enhanced ejaculatory experience. Prostate massagers are also an increasingly popular option that many men find adds considerably to their orgasmic intensity.
Of course, better sex and working the orgasm will be easier to come by if a man’s equipment is in good health - and that’s something many men tend to ignore. Every man should regularly apply a top drawer penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) to his member to help it maintain an appropriate healthy status. Men who use their penis a lot (either alone or with others) may find it becomes de-sensitized from use over time. So employing a crème that includes a neuroprotective ingredient like acetyl L carnitine is essential for proper care. He’ll get even better results if the crème also contacts alpha lipoic acid, a powerful antioxidant that helps prevent premature penile cell aging and a resulting "wrinkled" look. Acetyl L carnitine and alpha lipoic acid are synergistic, so the combination of these is a one-two punch.
Posted by John Dugan. Posted In : Men's Health
