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Perpetually Erect Penis - Sex Addiction or Normal Male Desire?

August 5, 2014

At some point, most men probably wonder whether they might have a sex addiction or whether that always-ready erect penis is just part of being a man. Clearly, a tool that is always at the ready is a sign of good penis health, but even so, the possibility that he may have a sex addiction problem can make a man feel quite uncomfortable. So how is a guy supposed to tell if he is addicted?

What is sex addiction?

Sex addiction - also known by the term "hypersexuality" - is a cause for enormous debate among the medical and psychiatric communities. Some people believe that there is no such thing; others believe that it most certainly does exist. But even among the latter group, there is a range of opinions concerning how to define it - and how to diagnose it.

Writing on PsychCentral, Robert Weiss, LCSW, CSAT-S, defines sex addiction as "a dysfunctional preoccupation with sexual fantasy, often in combination with the obsessive pursuit of casual or non-intimate sex; pornography; compulsive masturbation; romantic intensity and objectified partner sex for a period of at least six months."

Weiss also states that an addiction may exist if this obsessive behavior continues despite efforts to stop it and despite the impact that it has on relationships, social life and work. He compares it to other obsessive addictive behaviors like gambling and binge eating.

If it feels good, is it addiction?

One of the traits of sex addiction is that sex is often used to make a person feel better; rather than soothing oneself in a non-sexual manner or talking to others about problems they are experiencing, sex addicts tend to turn to sexual behaviors to reduce feelings of anxiety and stress.

That does not mean that a guy who occasionally fondles his tool when he’s feeling stressed or seeks to bed someone when he’s blue is a sex addict; but if this kind of behavior occurs with great frequency and if it cannot really be controlled by the man, then an addiction is quite likely.

The un-controlled aspect is key; many men have extremely high sex drives and engage in sex with an above average frequency; but they do this by choice. So, just because it feels good to have sex and a man does it often does not mean he has an addiction.

Seeking help

If a man does think that perhaps his sexual activity goes beyond normal and has the possibility of being an addiction, he should definitely seek help. There are recovery programs, such as Sexaholics Anonymous and Sex Addicts Anonymous, that can provide support and aid in dealing with the issue. Mental health professionals, such as psychotherapists, psychiatrists and some social workers, are another resource; those with training in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can men develop strategies to meet their sex addiction challenges. Certain medications, such as SSRIs (often used in treating depression and anxiety), may be prescribed by doctors to help control sexually compulsive behaviors; various mood stabilizers may also be used. Seeking help for a sex addiction is very important; as more becomes known about this condition in future years, more therapies will be developed to help those suffering from it.

Many men who experience a sex addiction engage in sex so frequently or with such aggressive behavior that their erect penis can become damaged - raw and sore or even de-sensitized -- due to rough handling. And it’s not just hypersexual men who encounter this; many men find themselves in the same boat. This is why it’s crucial that men make a habit of using a superior penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) on a regular basis. A cream with shea butter and vitamin E will nourish and moisturize the skin; if the cream also contains acetyl L carnitine, which is neuroprotective, it can help restore sensitivity lost due to peripheral nerve damage caused by rough use. And if L-arginine is also present in the cream, there will be a benefit to penis blood flow, as that ingredient aids the process which keeps blood vessels open.

 

Dry Penis Warning – The Hazards of Unhealthy Penile Skin

August 5, 2014

Clearly, a dry penis is less appealing than one with smooth, well-hydrated skin; but the problems associated with dry, parched skin are more than just superficial. Dermal tissue that is chronically dry can increase a man’s risk of more intensive problems; therefore, appropriate penile care should include attention to the condition of the skin. Read on for more about the problems associated with a dry, dehydrated penis.

The risks of chronically dry penile skin:

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Everyday Penis Care – Why it is Vital to Men’s Health

August 4, 2014

Let’s face it - there are times when a guy is simply too busy or too tired to take the time to shower, or at least wash up in the sink; and after all, how much difference can it really make if he skips just this once? The truth is, it does matter, especially when it comes to his penis health; doctors report that a large number of penis problems are related to sub-standard hygiene practices. While it is understandable that, after a long, exhausting day, a man just wants to pass out on the s...


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Ten Penile Cancer Symptoms – What to Look for and When to Get Help

August 4, 2014

Penile cancer is relatively rare, especially in industrialized countries; however, it can and does occur. Therefore, as part of a man’s overall approach to penis care, he should be aware of the following signs and symptoms. These symptoms can also be related to other, less serious health issues, but it is always important to be sure; therefore, men who develop any of these should bring them to the attention of their health care provider. Furthermore, because cancer may also occur without a...


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Red Penis Causes and How to Treat Them

August 3, 2014

Often, it’s only when something goes wrong downstairs that a man realizes it’s time to get serious about penis health. One such moment of realization occurs when a man drops his pants to find his penis a different color than when he last saw it. A red penis isn’t necessarily a sign of a serious problem, but it can be. Identifying the cause and finding effective treatment requires making note of any other symptoms that are present, along with potentially relevant behaviors and situation...


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Erect Penis, Go! Signs that She's Into Him

August 3, 2014

It happens all the time: a guy gets a seriously erect penis for a particular woman but can’t tell if she’s into him the way he is into her. This is largely because men aren’t as good as reading the body language that indicates how he is doing with a potential bedmate. Women may lack the obvious sign of interest of the man’s erect penis in his pants (assuming he has engaged in appropriate penis health and has a tool that does call attention to itself), but there are plenty of other si...


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Anal Sex Safety Tips for the Adventurous Couple

August 2, 2014

While it is still viewed as somewhat exotic by many people in society, anal sex is by no means uncommon: a study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that 40% of women between the ages of 20 and 24 had tried anal sex at least once, as had 11% of men in that age range (as a "bottom"). Performing as a "top" in an anal sex situation (despite the possibility of a sore penis resulting) has an appeal for far more men, and so it's no wonder that this once-scorned form of sexual engagement is inc...


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Sore Penis Alert - Masturbation Moves to Avoid

August 2, 2014

Men and masturbation go together, despite the occasional sore penis, and why not? Masturbation is an activity that creates joyous sensations, keeps a guy's organ in better shape, releases tension and helps a man to know what feels good on his tool. Of course, sometimes a guy masturbates in such a way that it impacts his penis health, and that's not a good idea. So this article explores a few masturbation mistakes that every guy wants to avoid.

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Itchy Penis Skin and Vitamin E – The Perfect Solution

August 1, 2014

Itchy penis skin can crop up for all sorts of reasons. But when the need to scratch shows up without a red rash, it's often caused by something really simple: dry skin. Thankfully, there's an effective penis care solution for men with dry skin down below - read more about how men can up their penile hygiene routine with vitamin E.

A Common Element

Skin cells can make Vitamin E, and when they do, this important element rises out of the pores and spreads across the surface of the skin. Un...


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Penis Infection Quiz – How Much Do Men Know About Penile Health?

August 1, 2014

There are dozens of types of penis infections and all of them respond individually to different types of treatment. That's why it's vital for men to know about the various types of diseases that can affect their penile health, as well as the penis care steps they should take to avoid potentially serious illness.

To get started, this quiz offers a look at the most common infections that can attack the penis. Men can test their knowledge here by matching the diseases with the descriptions. A...


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